As with everything in life, I get judged quite alot on my life choices. Motherhood and parenting are such subjective topics. What works conventionally and what a good mother is supposed to be like are subjected to more than one perception.
Some would let you have more autonomy to do what you think is right while others think you should not cross the strict guidelines.
I got this dress from MNG, a special collection, in 2007, it was on sale, I can;t remember how much, probably like MOP 200? Around less than Rm100?
I like it;s simplicity and it even fits me when I am like fully bloated, coming near full term?
I never had a real chance to wear it, obviously.
Still am waiting for the right occasion to wear it. Probably on a fine weekend, with flats, to minimize it;s formal wear , taking it to daytime wear?
Like a casual Maxi dress?
Trust me, I am not trying to raise the bar with mothers of 2 kids! It really is a full time job with loads of spills, vomit, very dirty fingers and rigorous fast dirty little hands, tripping stuff, spilling stuff and basically, sometimes I have to change clothes in between.
The trick is embrace motherhood, let chaos be what it is, uncontrollable, unpredictable and manage it when it happens!
Nothing ever really make me nervous except when my little babies are feeling exceptionally sick, like, 38deg fevers! Now, that really scares me.
With my in laws and his grandmother presence till October, ( gosh...it;s seems long right), I have embraced their nagging ways. They will not be here for good anyway ( thank goodness, seriously) .
Meanwhile, I am enjoying every lingering moments and my postings are regular. ( Sep 13th is looming!)
Maybe One day I will wear this dress again?
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